Tag: unfiltered
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What “self-love” looks like … for a Mom
Let me just start off by clarifying — I listened to a podcast once that differentiated the words self-care & self-love. Both seem so similar & most would say they’re the same thing. Somehow, someone somewhere decided that self-care should cost money, or rather be something that’s grand & really out of the norm. When…
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“I ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ᴅᴏ ᴡᴇʟʟ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʜɪɴᴛs – ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴀɴ ᴀᴅᴜʟᴛ, sᴘᴇᴀᴋ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴜᴄᴋɪɴɢ ᴍɪɴᴅ”
This post is inspired by the first thing on my list. I was walking around the neighborhood the other evening & I realized just how annoyed this made me. This was something that never used to annoy me – in fact, I know I’ve been this person farrrrr too many times – & as I…
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Always On
Last week was a long week. A hard week. I had topics I could have wrote about, but there was just no motivation… hence this post a week late. This is a feeling any Mom can relate to. This is a feeling that I didn’t fully understand until I was a Mom. The feeling of…
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ᴛᴏ ʙᴜʏ ᴏʀ ɴᴏᴛ ᴛᴏ ʙᴜʏ
I had a friend recently tell me that after several years of her & her significant other trying to get pregnant, she saw her first positive pregnancy test. Things are still so early though & so as excited as she is, the very thought of having to wait two more weeks for an ultrasound is…
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Eat. Breastfeed. Repeat.
It’s as I’m laying here at midnight, with my boob flopped out on the bed, listening to my husband softly snore on one side of me & my baby breathing heavier on the other as he slowly drifts off, that I feel compelled to start this week’s post. Because even though we’re on vacation, I…
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The Good Mom, The Bad Mom, The REAL Mom
Last week we went to Scheels – Zac, Kai & I. I was terrified. This was really the first public store I had to “be a parent” in. I had this instant anxiety sweep over me – I worried I wouldn’t be seen as a “good mom” … because clearly everyone there had nothing better…
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Guilty…..Of Mom Guilt
What is the definition of mom guilt? Let me take a crack at it first before you Google it. Mom Guilt, by my definition, is a big, black garbage bag of ridiculous emotions generally stemming from being a mom that never feels good enough or consistently feels like they are failing from the moment they…
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The Real Postpartum Body
Why not hit it hard & start out as real as it gets – The postpartum body. I feel like it’s something that sure is talked about, but not talked about in a real enough light. When does our body become our body again? I chose the route of breastfeeding, for the obvious reasons –…